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What Is Self-Sabotaging Relationships? Understanding the Patterns

What Is Self-Sabotaging Relationships? Understanding the Patterns

Have you ever pushed someone away, picked a fight out of nowhere, or doubted a relationship even when things were going well? If so, you might be wondering, what is self-sabotaging relationships and why does it happen? Self-sabotage in relationships often stems from...

Helping Kids Cope with Divorce: Building Resilience Through Change

Helping Kids Cope with Divorce: Building Resilience Through Change

Divorce is never easy, especially for children.  When parents decide to go their separate ways, kids often feel confused, scared, and uncertain about what the future holds.  The good news?  With the right support and guidance, children can develop resilience and adapt...

Child & Teen Depression Symptoms: That Parents Shouldn’t Ignore

Child & Teen Depression Symptoms: That Parents Shouldn’t Ignore

As parents, we want our kids to be happy, thriving, and full of life. But sometimes, those bright smiles fade, and we start noticing subtle (or not-so-subtle) changes in their mood and behavior. It’s easy to dismiss these shifts as “just a phase,” but what if it’s...

Friendship Struggles: How to Help Your Child Navigate Peer Relationships

Friendship Struggles: How to Help Your Child Navigate Peer Relationships

Friendships can be tough—especially for kids. One day they’re inseparable, and the next, they’re avoiding each other at recess.  It’s a rollercoaster, but strong social skills for kids can make all the difference. Teaching children how to connect, communicate, and...

An IFS Perspective on Inner Critics as a Protective Mechanism

An IFS Perspective on Inner Critics as a Protective Mechanism

The "inner critic" is a voice most people know all too well—the one that judges, shames, and undermines confidence.  But in Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, this voice isn’t just a bully; it’s a part of you trying to help, even if it doesn’t always go about it...

Coping with Shame: How We Organize Our Protective Mechanisms Around It

Coping with Shame: How We Organize Our Protective Mechanisms Around It

Shame. It’s one of those emotions we all experience but rarely talk about.  Unlike guilt, which is about feeling bad for something we’ve done, shame goes deeper—it’s the belief that we are bad. It’s an emotion that cuts to the core of our identity, shaping our...